Happy New Year
December, 2025
Letter from the Vineyard
December 31, 2025
December is slipping away, the year nearly done. Days will get longer now. The light will come, literally.
Christmas was to have been spent in New Mexico but the morning I was to leave, I got up; my back did not. I spent days managing an episode of sciatica, a word I remember hearing in my childhood, something old people dealt with. Well, I am old now; it’s something I’ve navigated a couple of times, first in the summer of 2018 when I woke up, got in the shower, experienced a kind of pain I’ve never know before. Pretty quiet until now, when it erupted and I cancelled Christmas for myself.
While I rested, the Kennedy Center was renamed the Trump – Kennedy Center, something I find offensive but not surprising. There will also be a Trump class of new warships for the Navy. The memes are amazing, several of gold plated warships caused me to guffaw, one named S.S. Bonespurs, which felt a shade dangerous with my back.
Mr. Trump also hosted the Kennedy Honors, which were the lowest rated in their history. Excuse my schadenfreude.
The Supreme Court showed a moment of spine and prevented deployment of troops in Chicago. The Supreme Court has been unprecedented in allowing presidential power to expand. FDR attempted something of the same but didn’t get as far as President Trump. Abraham Lincoln was a master.
Jeffrey Epstein does not go away. Trump said he had never been on Epstein’s plane though flight records indicate he was, more than a half dozen times, a plane known to some as “The Lolita Express.” Five million more pages to come…
Marjorie Taylor Greene was screamed at by Trump about her activism to release the files. Why, she asked. It’s going to hurt my friends, said the president, allegedly.
On Christmas Day, the U.S., in coordination with Nigeria, did precision bombing against IS enclaves in northern provinces, suspected of attacking Christians. The Nigerian government disputes Christians were uniquely targeted, saying IS doesn’t discriminate, attacking both Muslims and Christians.
Israel ranks last among countries in the Anholt Nation Brands Index [who knew there was such a thing?] Surprised?
Gaza is a festering wound. One day, I happened upon pictures of children in the West Bank, looking like Holocaust survivors.
In response, I gave to World Central Kitchen, Jose Andres’ organization for Gaza relief.
Famine is hovering over Palestine, Haiti, Sudan, South Sudan, Mali and Yemen, at least. As the year ends, think of the starving and, if you can, help out.
One of the wars Trump “ended” was between Cambodia and Thailand except it didn’t stay ended. There’ve been weeks of deadly clashes and bombings. On Sunday, the 28th, another ceasefire was declared.
While it can seem the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse are riding freely across the globe, there are signs of hope. Nicholas Kristoff has an opinion piece in the December 28th edition of the New York Times in which he tries to cheer us up. I recommend reading it here.
During the days of being home there was time to ponder.
Politically, I think of myself as a centrist, modestly progressive, concerned about civil rights, grateful to have grown up in the America I did, flawed as it was, it did seem we were mostly all working toward a common, greater good.
Sorry to say, not so sure right now. However, as friends tip more to despair than hope, I find my hope rising again.
Trump is not invincible. The rise of fascism is not inevitable. It will take work and we’re capable of it. We need to believe in ourselves. I continue to take hope and find hope in the good things I see happening.
My best high school friend, Tom, works three days a week at a food bank, stretched to the max by need. This island came together to help our food bank weather the suspension of SNAP.
People go to the streets, make silly, wonderful signs, letters are written, petitions are signed, blogs are written. Write a letter, sign a petition. Partake in a march.
Now in Summerfield, FL to spend New Year’s with my sister, a newer tradition of ours. Off to see other friends in Florida and on the 10th, will set sail on a Virgin Voyages cruise, 7 days of drifting through the Caribbean, traveling with my longtime friend, Tory, who has also booked a cabin.
Let me leave you with my favorite picture of the year, Edgartown Books in her Christmas finery. I think it sings of hope.
Happy New Year! Let us go forth bravely in these troubled times.



Letter From New York 09 04 15 Refugees, destruction and murdering grandmothers…
September 4, 2015It started as a lovely day here in New York that has gradually become grey but it is not blistering hot, as it was yesterday. My brother, sister-in-law and his daughter and her husband, are out at the U.S. Open and so the weather should be kind to them as they are going to be out there all day long, not expected back until near midnight.
I met them for breakfast and then came down to Broderville to do some work though I found myself easily distracted today as we slip into the Labor Day Weekend, the unofficial end of summer.
The advent of this weekend always makes me a little sulky, as I know the winter is in front of us; we can’t quite touch it but it is definitely coming. The feel of fall was in the wind that channeled through the concrete valleys of the city this morning.
Tonight, while my family watches tennis matches, I will be having dinner with my friends David and Bill at their West End apartment, where David has lived since he was in law school at Columbia. His decision to go to law school was triggered by a conversation with none other than Ruth Bader Ginsberg, now sitting on the Supreme Court.
Their refusal to hear Kim Davis’ appeal regarding providing marriage licenses to same sex couples in Rowan County, Kentucky, and her continuing refusal to obey the law, has resulted in her finding herself in jail, in contempt of court.
Rachel Held Evans [@rachelheldevans] tweeted today: No one’s being jailed for practicing her religion. Someone’s being jailed for using the government to force others to practice her religion.
Much re-tweeted and frequently shared on Facebook, including by me, I thought her insight offered a bit of clarity.
Ted Cruz and Marco Rubio have leapt to the defense of Kim Evans and she is becoming a potent symbol for the Christian right. I wonder where the Christian Left is on this; don’t recall hearing anything from them.
While some of us are melting down over the Kim Davis situation, IS has blown up three “Tower Tombs,” ancient artifacts that were uniquely Palmyran. UNESCO is calling their actions: intolerable crimes against civilization. The ancient world must have felt the same toward the Romans when they tore down buildings as they conquered towns or the barbarians as they overtook the Romans. We have a new set of barbarians loose in the land and they are taking with them what we had at long last started to preserve.
The death of little Alyan Kurdi, the three year old who died with his mother and brother, attempting to cross to Greek Kos from Turkey, was brought home to Kobane in Syria for burial.
The heartbreaking images of the boy seem to have stirred the EU into sorting out what they are going to do with the masses of refugees swarming upon them.
Cameron of the UK has said it will take 65,000 refugees. Individuals in the UK are gathering together, offering to help. Local Councils are beginning to do the same. Iceland has a movement agitating for their government to listen to the individuals and organizations that are willing to help with refugees.
A little boy has died; he will not soon be forgotten.
Hungary has been attempting to contain refugees there but they have broken out and are walking toward the borders. Nearly a thousand refugees are marching across Hungary after trains and buses to Germany were denied them.
Viktor Orban, Hungary’s right wing Prime Minister, has had the borders closed and raised a razor wire fence to prevent refugees from crossing the border. His actions have been denounced across Europe.
Right and Left are at odds all across Europe as the crisis continues.
An Egyptian billionaire has said he wants to buy an island from Greece or Italy to provide a new homeland for refugees.
Putin has admitted that Russia is giving logistical support to Assad’s government in Syria, something that has been suspected but had remained unconfirmed. The Russian President has left the door open for Russian troops though he has said he wants to keep conferring with his “partner,” the United States.
And, out of Russia, came the story of an elderly woman who has been jailed, suspected of perhaps as many as eleven murders. She was caught on video as she was disposing of a woman after having used a hacksaw to remove her hands and head. She then boiled them.
Her home contained books on black magic. The latest victim was a 79-year-old woman who was in her care. The Russians are calling her “Granny Ripper.”
Today is Force Friday. I hadn’t a clue about it until I read the Times this morning. Stores like “Toys R Us” and Walmart opened at midnight to start selling merchandise related to the upcoming Star Wars movie that is premiering in December. There is a new version of the Lego Millennium Falcon; an item that is on the top of many lists of must have items.
The day is ending. The sky is less grey and there’s more sunlight. I am heading out to buy a bottle of wine to give to my dinner hosts.
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