The day started grey; it looks like it will end grey but at lunchtime the world was flooded with sunlight and happiness, the way I was feeling.
Today is my birthday. I’m a year older and, I think, a year wiser. It has been an awfully contemplative year this past year. When I was in high school, I had my “gang” and we’d laugh and say: live quick, die young and have a good looking corpse.
Unfortunately, some did just that but most of have lived on, exiting middle age for the last act, working to shape this phase of our lives with as much care as we worked to shape other periods in our lives, whether we succeeded or not, we attempted.
At 6:00 AM my friend, Nick Stuart, texted me with what he wanted to be my first “Happy Birthday” of the day. It was. I went right back to sleep. Later, up and having my first coffee, another friend, Mary Dickey, called and we chatted, planning a time to see each other.
I’m here for the rest of the week, snuggling into my cottage. Right now, I’m listening to jazz and looking across the table, out to the creek. The trees have shed their leaves and the branches claw nakedly to the sky.
It is not the winter of my discontent. If anything, I am more content than I have been in my life while watching life unfold in its mysterious ways. Next January, I will be teaching a class, “Media and Society.” I’m excited.
My friends Jeffrey and Joyce sent me a message today: I hope today is a reminder of all good things that have and can happen.
And I am reminded of all the good things that have happened and may well still happen.
As I drove through the countryside, my friend Dairo phoned and we’re meeting for a martini in Hudson, a completely unexpected delight. Alana Hauptmann, proprietress of The Red Dot, phoned me while I was eating at Relish to sing me “Happy Birthday” and to tell me to stop on by as she had a present for me.
My inbox overflows with messages of good wishes on this day. Every other second it seems, a new Facebook birthday wish pops up. This is one of the wonderful things about Facebook. I’ve heard today by phone, text, email and Facebook from at least a 150 people wishing me well, not to mention the snail mail cards I have collected.
I have not paid much attention to the world beyond me today. I know there have been developments in Paris and I have not followed them.
It is my birthday and I am allowing myself to be joyful and whimsical and inattentive to the problem’s of the world. Time enough tomorrow.
Happy Birthday to me!


Letter From New York 11 20 15 Another day, another atrocity…
November 20, 2015Claverack. “A Trick of the Light” Louise Penny. Three Pines. Linda Epperson. Mali. Radisson Blu in Mali. Agatha Christie. “Murder at Hazelmoor” Paris. Ca’Mea. Hudson, New York.
Today was a startlingly beautiful day; a perfect early fall day, the sun shining brightly with the temperature scraping near 60 degrees. The best part is that it is now late November!
I woke early and watched the sun glitter on the creek while sipping my morning coffee and reading the NY Times on my iPhone.
It has been a good day. I finished reading “A Trick of the Light,” a Louise Penny murder mystery set in the fictional town of Three Pines in southern Quebec. There are twelve or thirteen of them. My friend, Linda Epperson, told me about them some years ago and I have been working my way through them.
When I was in, I think, 3rd grade and was home sick, restless of course, my mother tossed an Agatha Christie at me. It was “Murder at Hazelmoor.” It converted me to being a mystery fan and a bit of an Anglophile. Thanks to my friend Dalton Delan, I am the proud owner of an original edition of the book.
Three Pines is a little village filled with eccentric characters and a disproportionate amount of murders per capita. What it does remind me of, a bit, is my little town of Claverack without the disproportionate number of murders.
A few years ago the son of the man who owns the house two doors down from me did, apparently, an amazing number of drugs and shot his father and then killed himself. I was out of town. The father lived and is still in the house.
But that moment haunts our street, just as all the murders in Three Pines haunt that village.
I am writing on about mysteries because I don’t want to think of the mystery which is the world.
Today’s tragedy was in Mali. Al Qaeda terrorists burst into the Radisson Blu hotel there and killed, at last count, at least 21, screaming “Allahu akbar” [God is Great, I think] while slitting one man’s throat and rampaging with automatic weapons.
It is over now. They are counting the dead. At least one American is gone. Another day, another tragedy played out. In Africa, where there have also been all the atrocities from Boko Haram.
Tuesday night, the night before my birthday, my friend Larry took me to dinner at one of our favorite spots, Ca’Mea, great northern Italian cooking. We talked about Paris; he and his wife, Alicia, had been there not long ago.
He was torn, thinking on one hand he wants to know what is really happening in the world and, on the other hand, not wanting to be overwhelmed by it.
I totally understand. Sometimes I just want to retreat to my two little acres of land and listen to jazz and watch movies and not think about what is happening out there in the world.
But I can’t.
I care too much.
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