Sitting snuggled in the cottage, the weather reports inform us that we are about fifteen degrees cooler than normal this year, a situation not many are regretting. It feels a bit like early fall, a feeling coming a bit too early for me. I stopped today to buy some wine for the cottage and all of us at the wine store agreed it was too early to be thinking of fall. I will be thinking summer until it is officially fall – only then will I surrender this glorious summer to the past.
This weekend I am babysitting Marcel, a fourteen year old miniature poodle, who has claimed the settee in the entry way as “Marcel Land” and from their reigns over my household while his real humans, Lionel and Pierre, are away in Atlantic City for a work related weekend of frivolity. In their absence, I am watching over this very fussy animal, who refuses dog food and waits to be delighted by a variety of human foods. Last night I won him over with honey ham, sprinkled with cheese. I tried that again this morning; he was having none of it. So I went to the local deli and got him chicken, which has pleased him today.
At fourteen, he feels he has earned the right to be picky and all of us around him attempt to indulge that pickiness. He is, after all, fourteen which translates to something like 98 in dog years. He’s pretty spry for 98. We went for a half hour walk this morning, exploring my yard then walking across the street to his yard, where we spent some time. Today he did not go to the front door and look at it longingly, as if to say: why am I not going in to my own house? He came quietly back with me today, tacitly acknowledging that my home was his home for right now.
Not really a dog person, I did understand this morning walking Marcel why a morning dog walk can be good for a human too. It gave me some minutes to clear my head and to focus on something other than my own concerns. I was attentive to Marcel, to another living being, while I gathered my morning wits about me, sipping my first cup of coffee as we walked our immediate neighborhood.
Work life is quieting down, time is being given me for reflection, a slowing down of everything, so that I can gather myself together to face the next flurry of activity which will eventually come. This time is, I suspect, a bit like taking a long dog walk.


Letter From New York August 17, 2014
August 17, 2014Or, as it seems to me…
The sun has been an inconsistent friend these last few days; mostly the days are grey with brief moments of satisfying sun pouring through the trees around the cottage.
The cottage encourages contemplation. While I have been here, I have not paid as much attention as I normally do to the world around me. It has seemed distant, faraway, events of the week feel as if they are taking place on a distant planet. All here is calm, placid, the beat of ordinary life going on peacefully, tranquilly. An evening passed with neighbors and while we acknowledged the world outside, most of our conversation was about our little world: the circle where the cottage resides, the little town of Claverack and the big city of Hudson. We talked of golfing days and high school reunions, of neighbors and local politics. It was intensely rich.
But not so far away, things are happening, things that are deeply disturbing. A handbook will be written on what not to do after a police shooting, based on what has happened in Ferguson, MO. A tragic event spiraled into a chaotic melange of toxic negativity. Photos showed what has happened with the militarization of police in America. Awash after 9/11 with funds from the Department of Homeland Security, police departments across the country armed themselves to the teeth but for the most part the country didn’t see it – until Ferguson. Police officers looking like combat troops stormed through the streets of the town, fueling the flames of rage by their presence. A mishandled tragedy produced more violence and piled wrong upon wrong.
Protests became riots, protestors devolved into looters. Patrolling police became riot squads. Some calm returned when the Ferguson police were replaced by State Troopers. Last night though, despite a curfew, seven were arrested and one shot, critically. It will now take a long time for this to heal with hopes that all learn from this series of tragedies.
Tragedies. Our world is full of tragedies. In Africa the Boko Haram have now abducted about a hundred men and boys, demonstrating their abilities to cross great swaths of Nigeria with impunity, unhindered by the military. In neighboring Liberia, the Ebola dead are being abandoned where they lie. Liberia, Sierra Leone and Guinea are vastly under resourced to cope with the ravages of the disease and it looks to be months before the outbreak is contained.
Spin the globe and arrive in the cradle of civilization. American airstrikes have broken the siege of Mount Sinjar, letting the religious minorities there to flee into Kurdish territory or to parts of Iraq not gobbled up by ISIS. The Kurds will likely get Western Arms to fight ISIS, who have been successfully using the materiel left behind by fleeing Iraqi soldiers.
Arms and death seem to be how resolutions are being reached. A fragile cease fire exists this moment between Hamas and Israel, with peace talks ongoing in Cairo. One set of proposals has already been shot down by Hamas.
It seems difficult to find hope and happiness in all this malaise.
But yesterday, as I was driving, I heard a TED Talk on NPR. The speaker was saying we humans are hard wired for happiness, that we find ways, despite all, to find happiness in our lives.
If only we were hard wired for peace.
Tags: Boko Haram, Ebola, Ferguson, Hamas, Israel, Mathew Tombers, Mt. Sinjar
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