Happy New Year
December, 2025
Letter from the Vineyard
December 31, 2025
December is slipping away, the year nearly done. Days will get longer now. The light will come, literally.
Christmas was to have been spent in New Mexico but the morning I was to leave, I got up; my back did not. I spent days managing an episode of sciatica, a word I remember hearing in my childhood, something old people dealt with. Well, I am old now; it’s something I’ve navigated a couple of times, first in the summer of 2018 when I woke up, got in the shower, experienced a kind of pain I’ve never know before. Pretty quiet until now, when it erupted and I cancelled Christmas for myself.
While I rested, the Kennedy Center was renamed the Trump – Kennedy Center, something I find offensive but not surprising. There will also be a Trump class of new warships for the Navy. The memes are amazing, several of gold plated warships caused me to guffaw, one named S.S. Bonespurs, which felt a shade dangerous with my back.
Mr. Trump also hosted the Kennedy Honors, which were the lowest rated in their history. Excuse my schadenfreude.
The Supreme Court showed a moment of spine and prevented deployment of troops in Chicago. The Supreme Court has been unprecedented in allowing presidential power to expand. FDR attempted something of the same but didn’t get as far as President Trump. Abraham Lincoln was a master.
Jeffrey Epstein does not go away. Trump said he had never been on Epstein’s plane though flight records indicate he was, more than a half dozen times, a plane known to some as “The Lolita Express.” Five million more pages to come…
Marjorie Taylor Greene was screamed at by Trump about her activism to release the files. Why, she asked. It’s going to hurt my friends, said the president, allegedly.
On Christmas Day, the U.S., in coordination with Nigeria, did precision bombing against IS enclaves in northern provinces, suspected of attacking Christians. The Nigerian government disputes Christians were uniquely targeted, saying IS doesn’t discriminate, attacking both Muslims and Christians.
Israel ranks last among countries in the Anholt Nation Brands Index [who knew there was such a thing?] Surprised?
Gaza is a festering wound. One day, I happened upon pictures of children in the West Bank, looking like Holocaust survivors.
In response, I gave to World Central Kitchen, Jose Andres’ organization for Gaza relief.
Famine is hovering over Palestine, Haiti, Sudan, South Sudan, Mali and Yemen, at least. As the year ends, think of the starving and, if you can, help out.
One of the wars Trump “ended” was between Cambodia and Thailand except it didn’t stay ended. There’ve been weeks of deadly clashes and bombings. On Sunday, the 28th, another ceasefire was declared.
While it can seem the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse are riding freely across the globe, there are signs of hope. Nicholas Kristoff has an opinion piece in the December 28th edition of the New York Times in which he tries to cheer us up. I recommend reading it here.
During the days of being home there was time to ponder.
Politically, I think of myself as a centrist, modestly progressive, concerned about civil rights, grateful to have grown up in the America I did, flawed as it was, it did seem we were mostly all working toward a common, greater good.
Sorry to say, not so sure right now. However, as friends tip more to despair than hope, I find my hope rising again.
Trump is not invincible. The rise of fascism is not inevitable. It will take work and we’re capable of it. We need to believe in ourselves. I continue to take hope and find hope in the good things I see happening.
My best high school friend, Tom, works three days a week at a food bank, stretched to the max by need. This island came together to help our food bank weather the suspension of SNAP.
People go to the streets, make silly, wonderful signs, letters are written, petitions are signed, blogs are written. Write a letter, sign a petition. Partake in a march.
Now in Summerfield, FL to spend New Year’s with my sister, a newer tradition of ours. Off to see other friends in Florida and on the 10th, will set sail on a Virgin Voyages cruise, 7 days of drifting through the Caribbean, traveling with my longtime friend, Tory, who has also booked a cabin.
Let me leave you with my favorite picture of the year, Edgartown Books in her Christmas finery. I think it sings of hope.
Happy New Year! Let us go forth bravely in these troubled times.



Letter From New York 10 16 15 Kardashians, Refugees, Turkey and a night out..
October 16, 2015Lamar Odom. Khloe Kardashian. Israel. Palestine. Israeli knifings. Turkey. European Union. Refugees. Erdogan.
It is unbelievable to me that we have rounded into the second half of October in the year 2015. Stunning, the way time has been slipping through my fingers.
The last three days have been a battle with paperwork and machines. I had some complicated documents to complete and must have printed page two of the forms four times before I filled them, hopefully, correctly. They got sent off today by UPS and will arrive on Tuesday.
My Internet connection fluttered, my printer won’t print wirelessly and I have done everything in my power to get it back online, to no avail. Time to call in the experts.
Because of all of this, I am behind on a report for a client. ARGH! But all will be well, I’m sure.
All may be well for Lamar Odom, who apparently regained consciousness and is breathing on his own after losing consciousness while on a spree that reportedly included alcohol, cocaine and herbal sex stimulants. He was at a legal brothel in Nevada.
Soon to be ex-wife, Khloe Kardashian, is at his side. Do I see a reconciliation coming for the cameras? Pardon me if I am cynical.
All is not well in Israel, where Palestinians are killing Jews in knifings while the Israelis are killing Palestinians who attack them. Hamas has praised the men killed by Israel as martyrs. And that sad beat goes on; defying efforts to have any kind of peace break out.
It came to me that this violence has been a constant backdrop of my entire life.
Turkey and the EU are bickering over an aid deal to help Turkey with the refugee crisis, a deal that the Turks have called “insincere.” In the mix are suggestions from the EU that they will start accession talks with Turkey again about admission to the EU. Turkey’s Erdogan is skeptical.
In the meantime, it’s estimated 5,000 refugees slip out of Turkey and into Europe every day, not counting all the others that are striving for Europe from all across the eastern and southern Mediterranean.
Like last night, I set up a fire in the wood stove. I just got up and checked it and realized that absorbing the day’s news had made me feel physically tired. It causes me to sit down sometimes and put my head in my hands. It is no surprise that for a day or two, I might ignore the world outside my little glen.
We are all like that, I’m sure.
In the meantime, I must get ready. In twenty minutes, I am headed to the Dot to meet a friend for dinner.
Tags:Erodogan, EU, European Refugee Crisis, Israel, Israeli knifings, Khloe Kardashian, Lamar Odom, Mat Tombers, Mathew Tombers, Palestine, Turkey
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